While there may be interest between two in particular, it’s not double-dating so much as a group heading out or meeting up at the movies or the mall. There’s no right answer, even if most parents feel strongly that sometime around age 35 is perfect.
Take note of how your child reacts when you discuss dating.
For reasons not well understood, teenage and college-age Americans today are consuming alcohol at lower rates than young people 10 years ago, according to the Monitoring the Future study at the University of Michigan.
The most widely discussed hypothesis is that young people have changed the way they organize their social lives today, said Katherine Keyes, a Columbia University professor of epidemiology who has tracked drinking trends.
Don’t minimize, trivialize, or make fun of your child’s first relationship. Remember that high school romances tend to be self-limiting, but look for warning signs too.
If your child’s grades are dropping or they aren’t spending much time with friends anymore, consider limiting how much time is being spent with that special someone. It can be a difficult conversation for everyone involved, but it’s critical to be honest and clear about the facts.
With first relationships come first breakups, and those can be painful.