Men and women are both shallow – it’s a fact of life.
However, there are limits to how shallow someone can be and still be a decent human being.
By changing, I’m admitting defeat, and that’s not going to happen.
It’s actually really rude and insulting to tell someone to change, and I’m not going to kowtow to people who don’t see me as good enough right now.
There’s always going to be another hoop to jump through.
If he’s not in love with the real me, he’s not really in love with me.
If I changed my appearance for a guy to date me, there’s no saying that he won’t leave when I get older.
I can’t recall the last time I saw a guy who actually worked on himself to make himself dateable. If I change who I am as a person, the guy I’d end up with didn’t like me in the first place.
When I date someone, I want them to like the real me.
And Cove lets women win rewards just for using the app which means that any time you spend on the app isn’t wasted.