From there, as always, you want to have fun and enjoy the idea that women are naturally attracted to you.
That fun, positive attitude along with the assumption that girl’s want you will help you to naturally flirt with women.
Flirting with confidence As helpful as flirting tips for guys are, all these techniques and mindsets won’t do much if you can’t show confidence when flirting.
And no matter what flirting technique you use on a girl (touching, flirty banter, etc) the way to flirt with confidence is to have the right body language.
So when flirting with a girl, you want to lean back and show her that you’re relaxed and comfortable.
Avoid fidgeting and “pecking” (constantly leaning toward and away from the woman your talking to, which makes a guy look like a bird pecking at food).
How to playfully flirt with a girl Think of flirting as a game.
If you make the game too easy for the girl, she’ll get bored and won’t want to play.
Once you have the proper frame of mind for flirting, you’ll find the right words and actions flow effortlessly. Assume that the woman you’re talking to is already attracted to you.
For example, if you are flirting with a girl you just met, a good way to start flirting through touch is to use the back of your hand and simply tap her around the upper elbow.
From there, take small steps forward with your touch.
Now, don’t confuse this mindset with thinking you need to be arrogant.
It’s simply about seeing yourself as the desirable, high-value guy women desire.
She’s not quite sure what to make of that interest since most guys don’t date girls that remind them of their little sister.