Sometimes I wonder if we convince ourselves we want children without really examining it.
Elizabeth Gilbert, the author of , that she loved her nieces and nephews but did not want children of her own.
You have to work hard to find someone you really want and really like – or, as one married male friend put it, “someone normal” (apparently normal men are in short supply).
The search is a kind of journey, and along the way you tend to learn a few things about yourself, and about the society we live in. Everyone knows lots of fabulous single women in their 40s …but can’t think of any equally fabulous single men the same age.
We have all heard about how easy it is for a man to start dating in his fifties and how there are plenty of women to choose from. Early 30’s and never been married – these women must have “daddy issues”.
Their desire to be with men 15-20 years their senior means they are looking for someone to take care of them both financially and personally.
The thrill and excitement of a younger woman is so compelling. Someone who will appreciate what my age and wisdom brings to the partnership.
They probably won’t be in “awe” of you and hang on your every word.That decision can be pretty liberating – especially when you’re dating in your 40s: There’s no biological clock ticking away, which can put pressure on new relationships. You don’t have to limit yourself to men in your age group Not to feed the cougar cliché, but by the time you reach 40, the social stigma of dating younger men is so passé.In my experience, younger men really don’t care much about age differences. There is such a difference between what is available for men and woman. What I find most interesting at this point is the whole dating scene.
It is a truth universally acknowledged that a single, attractive, heterosexual woman over the age of 40 must be in need of a man.