Otherwise it’s just a distraction that temporarily tables the problem and allows it to get worse. I’m talking about learning new skills, becoming more invested in current affairs, reading more… If he thought he was finished gaining any kind of knowledge when he graduated from school, he’s still got a lot to learn.
Knowing how to manipulate people into doing what you want is actually a pretty good skill to have. Sometimes a man’s gotta do what a man’s gotta do, and that isn’t always pretty.
And while women are sometimes attracted to bad boys, they’re almost never attracted to bad men.
Running away from or avoiding problems is one of the most childish things a guy can do.
If this guy is rude to waiters or won’t play nice with your friends, he’s either playing the bad boy or he really is one.
If he can’t send you a simple text just to let you know he’s not dead or in jail, odds are he’s fucking with your head.
When you ask a guy where he wants to go for dinner and he says something like, “I don’t care,” or “Wherever you want,” it’s usually true.
For whatever reason, he wants you to believe he has other options besides you and he makes sure you know about them.
Some guys can be kind of emotionally closed off, and that shouldn’t be such a big deal.
This can be an endearing quality, but it will get frustrating if you’re trying to plan a life with someone incapable of commitment. Still, when we’re drawn to people, we tend to make excuses for their faults. How can you expect to have an adult relationship with someone who’s never left the nest?