I know he’s been hooking up with other women and I believe he knows I’ve been hooking up with others too. There is no reason for anyone to be dishonest or unfaithful.
Here’s the thing, even though he knows that I know about it (though he doesn’t tell me but c’mon girls we all have that strong intuition) he still tries to hide it from me. Why would you hide something like that from your FWB considering that your relationship is just FWB? If they need to do either, then they should end it. But what are you doing that makes the women go wild and freak out.
You are lying because you are doing something you should not be doing.
I have caught my boyfriend lying a few times now, I am now not even sure what is the truth and what is a lie anymore.
Trust me it saves both parties a hell of a lot of heartache to just not lie in general. And he said he has an allergic reaction and was given a shot and antibiotics. I live in LA, and men lie here ALL the time – and the lies aren’t even for good intention like to protect me or show off. He lies about things to my face, and I know he is lying. “I was outside on my lunch break at work, and I was standing next to “John”, and he was smoking it.” “Thats why you smell it on me”. That still didn’t explain why, when he kissed me, I could taste it on his lips, and smell it on his breath.
Or don’t put yourself into positions where you have to lie! I’m obviously screenshotting every text to my girlfriends, and almost all of them go “you don’t get antibiotics for an allergic reaction.” So, now I’m like – LIAR. And then later that day, he was pretending to buy aa house near his apartment on IG story. Either he took a hit from “John’s” pipe/joint, or he was kissing someone who was smoking it. He says he smokes pot to relieve back pain from a herniated disk in his cervical spine. That said, I think there are some screwed up things going on where he works.
If he apologies (sincerely), use your womanly God given intuition. He should have been honest with me when we first started dating 18 months ago, about how much he smokes it. You have enough evidence he is lying, say goodbye and move on! Try to write properly using complete sentences and punctuation.
is a free ESL, EFL & ELT site that offers top quality printable and interactive English grammar and vocabulary exercises for teachers and students.I have not lied once to him in our 4 1/2 year relationship. Also he says he is one place and then I find out he was actually somewhere else.Ofcourse I am now going to start wondering what is he up to, who is he with, why did he need to lie to me, is he messing around.As a guy, I would agree with you but coming from a gay man who dated other men, your reasons for lying are like another man lying about the reasons he’s lying. The truth will eventually come out and it hurts more to know that you’ve been lying. (At the time I felt like he was lying so I wasn’t overly sympathetic.) then he texted me that he found a free walkin clinic (at am on a Sat) on a particular street.Yeah of course it hurts to know the truth up front but it’s worse to continue to lie and lie and lie because in the end it’s worse knowing you didn’t give them the truth. So my “used to be lied to” ass googles open clinics in that area, and they’re all closed by 8pm. So then the next morning, I follow up asking if he’s Ok.
This is the worst possible thoughts to be constantly having. My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for about 4 years.