But I am a matured lady at 28 age, I am not really like other ladies at 28 that just wanna call it "quilt" quickly because marriage is very important. That is why I don't really want call it "quilt" quickly unless he is doing you wrong, at first ask him to explain why in detail is he really online for dating.Marriage is God's covanent that He has blessed you with. Was he just boring or looking for a friend he knows to talk with?Is there any legit reason for a married person to be on a dating site? Would you believe that someone would truly be looking for "just talk". If it is an old friend but he probably just run into new friend...otherwise if he was just boring and looking for someone to talk with.I would call it Seperate or quilt whatever you wanna. But, I was thrilled by the ultimatum given to the company by the hackers, because offering escapades to a married person having marriage trouble is like offering booze to an alcoholic. But I do not want you to think it will pass, and everything will automatically be okay.
We have helped countless women do so; ones who were told it was impossible by others.As a single woman, if I was paying to be on a dating site and I found out a married guy was wasting my time and money, I'd be ROYALLY p.o.'d.I would do my best to rat him out to his wife AND his boss/coworkers if I could figure out how to do it, not to mention getting him blackballed on the site.the culture is lying when it holds out the idea, in so many ways, that true joy is found in cheating--it's not. It's easy to take your relationship for granted, when the day to day stuff gets in the way.true joy is found in being faithful out of love for God. I don't think it is cheating, but I think it means that there is something missing. It gives you a chance to be honest with each other and draw boundaries at the same time. I'm not defending his actions, but I think the better question to answer is WHY is he going to the dating sites.
I have a husband who is married to his friends, so he is always out socializing, and I am always home with my tv and my laptop . i feel as tho looking bak i have to explain myself... at a minimum it would make me suspect he's cheating and I don't know how you would recover from that.