Celebrities like Ashton Kutcher, George Clooney, (Younger days?
With those, you will send a few messages back and forth before he invites you for a drink.
After all, we each have only the 500-word text boxes and crappy jpegs and clever (not so clever) user names to show for ourselves. Maybe in this environment where we are safely sequestered behind screens, we can get past some of the lingering gender-based “rules” that dominate the “How to Catch a Man” playbooks of yore.
Maybe instead we can learn to treat each other as equal players of a very silly game that we all secretly take quite seriously. But it seems quite clear to me that we’re not there yet. I’m a feminist, sex-positive 21st century lady whose photos include me posing in a Rosie the Riveter Halloween costume.
You are the person meant to be helping the woman make up her mind, with your confident and energetic profile. Your must draw them out of their comfort zone and not keep them there. Go against the grail and avoid the porno approach most guys would take. Tell the truth about yourself in the most exciting way that you can. You lay all your cards on the table and they see you in all your glory. If she sniffs anything funny about you she’s out of there!
Say enough about yourself but still leave enough room for more to be discovered. Give them something to chew on and draw them in slowly. A good way to create a cool profile is to think of celebrities women go gaga about and borrow a thing or 2 from them.
Pick out their lines, what they do and how they act. Try to avoid putting up pictures with your beer buddies or best friends. This is no gang-bang so ensure you are the only one in your .