Don’t click Send Collect and don’t get scared away from your chat by this.You also don’t need to buy credits (although may want to for other reasons).You will get an email when your sweetheart logs in.If you’re not on your computer 24/7, have the notification forwarded to your mobile phone. If you need some time to compose your masterpiece, do it beforehand and save it on your computer. Ashley Madison says that once contact has been established with a member, all further messages are free.They’ll be happy to repeat whatever they wrote earlier. Unfortunately, our website is currently unavailable in most European countries.This is a trick I already wrote in my Ashley Madison tips for guys.If you want to catch a member who receives a lot of mail, write when she is online so that your message is right on top of her inbox. Add him or her to your favorites and activate “Favorite Member Login” in your account contact options.
Just check what date range his user ID falls into: That gives you an idea if he’s been around the block a few times or if he’s really “just trying out the site” as he may be claiming.
To save some points, simply ignore the collect mail and write the member back directly.
You can always say that there was an error and you couldn’t read the message. Those are the flagged, shaded ones that always sit on top of the inbox, no matter how old. Normally, the sender also gets a confirmation when I opened his message. Well, sometimes I’m curious what he wrote but don’t want him to think I’m all interested.
There really are only three things to see when I scan over those messages: picture, name and the subject line. Choose one that makes me want to click to your profile – something about you or something funny. It’s a fine line though between “funny” and “trying too hard”.
I’m sure there are some “sugar babes” on Ashley Madison, who might be looking for such an arrangement. Warm Smile, was his picture – a well-dressed man in front of a foreign landmark – I found that intriguing enough to click. Groomed and well-dressed works much better than your naked torso in the bathroom mirror.
Do you really expect me to accept a collect mail when I have my inbox bursting at the seams with other guys? Look, I’m not a gold digger and if we meet, I won’t expect you to pay for my coffee. I may actually have a quick glance over all six pages. What I really don’t like are subjects with a sugar daddy proposal. And there are all sorts of things you can do without revealing who you are.