When you are married you don't have friends that aren't friends of the marriage.
In other words, I don't think it's appropriate for someone to be looking for a friend of the opposite sex...specifically of the opposite sex.
Shouldn't they be looking for more enjoyment with their spouse?
Or why not go golfing, hiking, barbecuing, etc., with another married or dating couple?
There were no secrets as there was nothing to be secretive about! But man the jealously kicked in and man I paid for it dearly.
And I'll add that their friends of EITHER gender were and are welcome as well. I even helped her land her a good man who is the boss of my job in which he gave to me for being a good person.
Personally I think that anyone posting on a dating site that is married looking for friends of the opposite sex is just looking for a girlfriend/boyfriend on the side. If she is married, if she says she is looking for friends, and if she also says no married men, that is confusing.
I don't feel it's appropriate for a single female to have a close friendship with a married man that does not include his wife.
I also think it holds a huge potential for heartbreak for the single person.
While other people certainly can live their lives as they see fit and I will respect them, I will honor my feelings in the way I live my life.
I'm not really looking for more married couples as friends, I have plenty of them already. That's because I am extremely picky about who I get close to and don't want to mislead anyone into thinking that I will instantly fall in love, or into bed, with them."Regardless, of what they post, POF is a dating site"You have long term, you have dating, but do not forget you have friendship.